Sue has done a bright bit on I suppose the art of seduction the ladder theory As we saw above, guys trying to move from the Friends Ladder to the Fucking Ladder deliberately often results in rejection. This is a bit crap for you guys, cos you usually have no way of knowing which ladder you're on unless you test it. So, either you give it a shot and risk getting rejected, or you assume you're on the Friends Ladder and learn to live with your frustration.
..that's a deliberate anecdote to what is to behold [it's a shame to do because the work Sue does is sidelined here] please read it is so sorta obvious that she wants to make a shuffle in a despicable way - then you know she wont blar